Stop being a bleeding heart for every Tom Dick and Harry that comes your way. We as Christians often suffer from this problem. Because service and giving are apart of us, we often make our selves vulnerable to those who wish us ill will. If you think I am leading you astray, look at the serial killer Ted Bundy. He preyed on the kindness of strangers to make them vulnerable to him. If you feel guilt about not giving to the next street peddler you happen upon, donate to your favorite charity as soon as you get home. Do not take out your wallet or go digging in your purse on a street corner in plain view of everyone! Use your head and BE SAFE!